Twenty Questions I’m Often Asked –
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1.  Do you have a family?
2.  What are your most favorite and least favorite chores?
3.  I want to write and publish books someday.  How can I get started?
4.  When you’re not writing, what do you like to do for fun?
5.  How old were you when you started writing?
6.  Where did you grow up and go to school? 
7.  Are you rich?
8.  What’s the hardest thing about being a writer?
9.  What’s the best thing about being a writer?
10. Do you have another job, or is writing the only work you do?
11. How long does a poem have to be?
12. Do you have any brothers or sisters?
13. Sometimes I get frustrated because I don’t understand a poem.  It makes me not want to read poetry.  What should I do?
14. Do you draw the illustrations for any of your books?
15. Which to you like writing best, rhymed or unrhymed poetry?
16. What do you like writing best, poems or stories?
17. Why do you write about baseball so much?
18. What’s your favorite baseball team?
19. Where do you live?
20. What do you look like?
 
 
 
 
 
 
1.  Q: Do you have a family?
    A: I have a super family.
 
A terrific wife, Polly, who has put up with me during forty years of marriage.  Wow! That’s a long time!  She’s a nurse. Her speciality is neo-natal intensive care.  She loves working with babies.  She also loves teaching others how to become a good nurses.  She’s in her sixteenth year of teaching at Tri-County Technical College in Pendleton, South Carolina.
 
Two wonderful and talented sons. 
 
Tim is a history professor at Furman University in Greenville, South Carolina and loves to play softball. He and his wife Jacquelyn have two daughters, Mireille and her younger sister Gabrielle. Don’t get me started talking about my granddaughters or I won’t ever get to the next nineteen questions. 
 
Andy is a realtor who lives on Lake Travis in Austin, Texas, with his dog Arlo, and he loves all kinds of water activities.  He also loves Austin, which is bad for Polly and me. If he didn’t love it so much we might be able to convince Arlo and him to move closer to us so we could see him more often.
 
Luckily for them, both Tim and Andy can do many things they didn’t learn how to do from their dad, like use computers and build things and fix things.
 
Two incredibly cute tiny dogs.  Angel, a white toy poodle and her brother:  Hunter, a black toy poodle.
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2. Q: What are your most favorite and least favorite chores?
     A:  Most favorite – mowing the lawn.
          Least favorite – everything else.
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3.  Q: I want to write and publish books someday.  How can I get
         started? 
     A: First of all, read a lot.  All the good writers I know are
         also people who love to read.  Secondly, write a lot. To
         be a good musician or athlete, one must practice a lot.
         The same holds for writing: the more often you write,
         the better you will be.
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4.  Q: When you’re not writing, what do you like to do for fun?
     A: I love to play tennis and golf and softball. I play on a
         softball team of “seniors” (that’s a nice way of saying
        “old men”) that plays fifty to sixty games a summer.
         We play from March to October.  If I were writing a
         scouting report about myself, it might say: he hits for
         a high average, runs well and is a good fielder, but he
         can’t hit for power.  A park two miles from where I live
         has just built a nice disc golf course, so I’m planning to
         try my hand at that.  I also love to read and collect three
         kinds of books: poetry books, young adult and children’s
         novels, and sports books, mainly sports fiction. I have more
         than 6,000 books in my personal library, so I don’t even
         have to leave my house when I feel like reading a good book.
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5.   Q: How old were you when you started writing?
     A: I don’t recall ever writing a poem or short story until
         I got to college.  I didn’t start writing poetry (other
         than just a handful) until I was 33 years old.  My
         first story and poem weren’t published until I was 35.
         The problem is, I never had any teacher in elementary
         or high school show me how much fun writing a story
         or poem can be.  Those of you who have teachers that
         encourage you to write poems and stories and show you
         how to get started are lucky.
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6.   Q: Where did you grow up and go to school?
     A: I grew up in Thomson, Illinois, a little town in the northwest
         part of Illinois right on the Mississippi River.  We had 500
         people in town and eleven in my high school graduating class.
         I’ve written a lot of poems about growing up in Thomson.
         I went to college at Northern Illinois University and earned
         my Bachelor’s and Master’s Degrees there.
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7.   Q: Are you rich?
     A: I certainly am.  But not in money.  In satisfaction – the
         satisfaction of having great friends and a great family,
         and the satisfaction of waking up every day and looking
         forward to the fun things I can do and the new things
          I’ll have a chance to write.
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8.   Q: What’s the hardest thing about being a writer?
     A: For me, the hardest thing has nothing to do with
         the actual writing – it’s trying to keep from
         getting too frustrated when a publisher doesn’t
         want to publish something that I think deserves
         to be published. 
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9.   Q: What’s the best thing about being a writer?
     A: Seeing a completed copy of a poem or story or book
         and thinking, “Boy, that turned out pretty good!” (Getting
         it published is a great feeling, of course, but that comes
         later, and that’s just a bonus. There is great satisfaction
         in writing something, even if it never gets published.)
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10.   Q: Do you have another job, or is writing the only work you do?
     A: I taught school (English and creative writing) for twenty-eight
         years (one year of eighth grade – the rest in high school
         and college. Now I go around to schools and teach some
         creative writing classes or talk to students about writing
         and read poems.  That’s not work, though.  That’s fun.
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11.   Q: How long does a poem have to be?
      A: As long as you need it to be.  The longest poem I’ve written
          is almost five hundred lines long.  My shortest poem is one
          line long.  Its title is longer than the poem itself. Here it is:
 
           THE DAY I DREW A GIRL AS MY OPPONENT IN MY
               FIRST AND ONLY SCHOOL WRESTLING MATCH
 
            She threw me flat against the mat. And that was that.
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12.   Q:  Do you have any brothers or sisters?
      A:  No brothers, three sisters.  Janice was one year older
           than me. She died in December, 2004.  Rita is 10 years
           younger than me and lives in Havana, Illinois. Rhonda, 12
           years younger, lives in St. Charles, Missouri.
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13.   Q: Sometimes I get frustrated because I don’t understand a poem.
           It makes me not want to read poetry.  What should I do?
       A: Don’t turn a poem into a puzzle that has only one solution
           or one answer.  Different readers will see something
           different in the same poem depending on their own
           experiences in life and their own experience reading poetry.
           All you should do is try to enjoy something in the poem –
           the sounds or the story or the picture it paints.  The
            meaning of a poem isn’t as important as what it makes
            you think or how it makes you feel.  You can enjoy it
            without “understanding” it.
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14.   Q: Do you draw the illustrations for any of your books?
      A: Never. I’d love to be able to draw, but I’m as bad an
         artist as I am singer.
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15.   Q: Which to you like writing best, rhymed or unrhymed poetry?
        A: I love writing both.  I think that anyone who wants to write
            poetry should try writing both kinds.  Some poems will
            work better if they rhyme, some if they don’t. It’s important
            to give yourself the chance to choose. You can only do that
             if you practice writing in both rhyme and free verse.
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16.   Q: What do you like writing best, poems or stories?
      A:  I like writing both stories and poems, but one reason
          I write so many more poems is because it doesn’t take me
         nearly as long to write my first draft. Most writing, of course,
         needs to be rewritten and revised many times.
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17.   Q: Why do you write about baseball so much?
      A:  I’ve always loved baseball, ever since I was seven or eight
           years old and played by myself, throwing a ball against
            a wire fence in my back yard and tossing a ball in the air
            and then bunting it down a narrow sidewalk, trying to bunt
            it straight so it would roll a long way before going off into
           the grass. I’ve played on teams almost my whole life.
             One of my favorite writing projects was that of interviewing
           former major league baseball players for my books TALES
           FROM BASEBALL’S GOLDEN AGE and MORE TALES
          FROM BASEBALL’S GOLDEN AGE.  These were players who
          were my idols when I was a kid.  I never thought I’d actually  
          have a chance to talk to them someday and listen to all their
          stories about when they were playing ball.
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18.   Q: What’s your favorite baseball team?
      A:  In the American League, the New York Yankees.
           In the National League, the Chicago Cubs.
           It balances out because the Yankees almost always win
           their division and the Cubs almost always lose theirs.
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19.   Q: Where do you live?
      A:  I live in Seneca, South Carolina. My wife and I have lived
           here since 1991.  We love living in South Carolina where
           it’s  warm much of the year.
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20.   Q: What do you look like?
       A:  Some people think I’m a cross between Robert Redford and
            Tom Cruise.  I’m old, like Redford, and I’m short, like
            Cruise.
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